Divorce is the legal separation of two people who must break their promises because they no longer want the marriage to continue. In today’s society, it has become a custom in our lives. Married couples today are getting a divorce due to many different reasons, either because of conflicts in the marriage, loss of romantic feelings, a spouse committing an affair, and other type of marriage problems. Although it is legal but is not a fair to happen. There are many causes and many effects to divorce. Most of these divorced couples have children that are very young who become the sufferers. The couple also falls in psychological problem because of divorce and due to their age, have no idea on how to deal with an event like a divorce.
Many people get divorced for various reasons. Normally ,people get divorced because they either get really annoyed at their wife or husband but some other reasons are that they were just in love that wasn’t going to last. It also happens either because there is no love in the relationship and the marriage wasn’t a good choice. Another reason why a marriage does not work out is because of a baby that was born before the marriage. The father wanted to take care of the baby but in order to take care of the baby the father needed to get married. But after a while they parents start to fight and the kid is in the middle of the controversy. Sometimes it happens for the want of a good person to handle the fight of the couple. That is why we see that most divorce couple are young. If they have enough aged children they can easily deal with it.
There are too many negative results of divorce on couple and their children and parents to describe. Divorce doesn’t just affect the couple who are splitting but most often children feel the impact seriously. Researchers and psychologists accept that divorce can negatively affect kids and teenagers, according to the University of New Hampshire. Children will often believe they are to blame for a divorce, while youths may feel pressured into siding with one parent. The results are that a child will grow up doubting his ability to marry and can suffer depression because of the break-up of his family. Further an argument against divorce is its negative effect on a couple’s psychological health. Adults can suffer a negative psychological balance, including high levels of anxiety, unhappiness and depression. It also makes the couple’s parents disappointed.
However, there is an advantage to a child’s parents splitting up. A child who experiences divorce may mature quicker and develop responsibility at a younger age. If a child’s father moves out and she has younger siblings, she may have to take on a co-parental role with her mother. This exposure will give her a sense of responsibility that other areas of her life can benefit from. Also, children will benefit from divorce if there is a high level of conflict in their parents’ marriage. Another advantage to divorce is the personal growth a person goes through after the event. This is because divorced individuals have to become self-sufficient and cope with the pressures of everyday life by themselves. After divorce, individuals can develop the personal skills that can help them work towards a better quality of life for themselves and their children.
Divorce is the opposite of marriage in term that by marriage a couple start their life with a happy manner but divorce dismisses this happiness. So whenever we face the situation or conflict between the twosomes we should handle it creatively and the couple also should be careful and tolerant to get rid of being divorce because it is not a matter of pleasure.